As a high-class escort agency in Auckland, we know what it takes to ignite a spark to your sex life and create the ultimate bed-shaking experience with your partner. Unsurprisingly, we believe that something as intimate and pleasurable as sex should be absolutely mind-blowing for everyone involved. That takes a little extra thought! Luckily, our ladies are ready to enrich your sex life with some of our favourite tips and tricks. Are you ready?
Quality over Quantity
The golden rule for excellent sex is to focus on quality over quantity. Having more sex doesn’t equate to having better sex. In fact, this can lead to the disaster of “going through the motions”, which everyone should avoid at all possible costs.
Recent studies suggest that having sex just once or twice a week is enough to keep the flame going on with your partner. Having sex as more of a once or twice a week affair generates tantalising anticipation and deters it from turning into a “task” for every day.
Give it Time: Foreplay
Women love foreplay; arousal and excitement help them enjoy the activities to come. Penetration is always made better for everyone involved when the recipient is absolutely gasping for it. So, you should never underestimate its significance before indulging in the act.
Foreplay doesn’t only account for those few moments before sex! In fact, the best foreplay starts ages before you even hit the sheets. The idea behind foreplay is to make your partner feel special and loved—something that requires the smallest attention to detail and more time than it takes to get your clothes off. So, whether it is complimenting their body, little gestures of affection, or being alert to your partner’s needs, take the time to rile them up in all the ways you know-how.
Be Spontaneous
As we’ve said before, sex should never be a “task”, because that’s a hundred per cent going to snuff out the spark. Spontaneity keeps monotony at bay! If you’re feeling the urge to try something new and exciting that both you and your partner consent to and enjoy, don’t hesitate. Go for it! Whether it is a new position, a long-hidden kink, or a fun foreplay act, spontaneous acts like these will spruce up your sex life instantly. Ever tried doing it in somewhere that isn’t a bed? We highly recommend.
Beyond the new fire kindled by spontaneity, trying new things with your partner will help you to learn more about them. Intimacy is about more than the physical connection, so connect! Try new things, talk about it, and lose yourself to each other.
Tell Your Partner What Turns You On
The more your partner is aware of your sexual needs and preferences, the better the sex will be. It’s that simple. Communication is vital to understand what they want, as it will inspire you to do what it takes to excite your partner in bed. Staying quiet about your needs and favourite things in bed will only make it feel one-sided, and that’s never a good thing!
Half the reason high-class escorts are so good at their jobs is that they’ve mastered the art of communication—verbal or no. Our clients communicate what they want, and our courtesans deliver. The same thing applies the other way around. After all, the best sex happens when both parties are having a great time.
At the end of the day, your partner can’t go wrong when they know exactly what you want. And you can always make it part of your dirty talk to add some extra heat to the experience.
Be Confident
There is nothing more enticing than sexual confidence, and we should know. However, be careful not to mistake sexual confidence for being dominant in the bed. Sexual confidence is all about feeling secure, desirable, and open to new things, and being confident in bed means you’re enjoying the moment without being self-conscious or anxious about your sexual abilities. In order to experience great sexual pleasure with your partner, try to find a way to leave all inhibitions behind and immerse yourself in the act with full confidence.
The feeling is contagious! If you are confident in bed and feel secure with your partner, they will feel the same way. If you have any hang-ups, talk them out before you start, and make sure to be open-minded if your partner wishes to do the same. Once that’s done, it’s time to get down to business.
Experiment (With Consent)
Finally, broaden your sexual horizons by experimenting with new avenues of sexual pleasure! Most people are intimidated by trying something new or approaching a new sexual encounter, and that’s understandable. However, with the right partner and with open, playful communication, you can make pretty much anything work in the bedroom.
Talk to your partner first (consent is extremely important folks). If they’re into it or are keen to try what you’re into, then it’s full steam ahead! New sex toys, a night with the Kamasutra, or even bringing someone else in to join in the festivities—the world is your oyster. And if there’s something you know your partner is holding out on, give them the chance to try it out. Blow their mind, and they’ll return the favour.
So, what are you waiting for?
We’re ready, are you?
To experience incredible sex, you don’t have to go very far. Our female escorts know what it takes to take your sex life to a new height, and we’re happy to guide you through a new realm of sexual experience. We’re committed to creating incredible evenings with our dates, so when you’re ready, get in contact with us.