Ladies and gentlemen, the time has come for the cohort of female escorts at Juliette’s to educate you on what takes sex from good to absolutely incredible. We are in the business of sex, so we know a thing or two (and more) about what you can do in your sex life every day to make it sensual, intimate, and absolutely mind-blowing for everyone involved.
Take a moment, and find out how a few small considerations can turn that spark into a roaring flame.
Take Your Time with It
Our first tip is to take your time with it! Our minimum booking duration is an hour for a very good reason – good sex does not happen in a rush. Find parts of the day or night that you both have enough time to dedicate, and use it to explore each other. Often people find that they fall into the same patterns that they know will work on their partners, and this can lead to a lot of predictability.
Shake it up! Lay her out and explore her body, run your fingers all over, and find a new spot that makes them gasp with pleasure. This creates an amazing build-up, so your release will be twice as satisfying. We guarantee it.
Quality Above Quantity
Speaking of satisfaction – a good sex life doesn’t necessarily mean an overactive one. It’s better to have absolutely fantastic sex only twice a week rather than unremarkable sex every day, so focus more on finding the right moment and working hard to satisfy each other. Don’t get mechanical about it! This also means that you and your partner are raring to go by the time you finally hit the sheets.
Be Confident with Your Partner
We know, easier said than done, right? But imagine this: when your partner puts their hands on you firmly and without hesitation, it is deliciously sexy. Confidence in bed makes people feel like you know them and how to give them pleasure, so they can relax and enjoy their time with you rather than feel like they need to hand-hold you every step of the way.
Keep in mind that confidence doesn’t necessarily mean taking the lead (although that is also a very good way to turn your partner on). You can be confident without being dominant, and you should always make sure that what you’re doing is okay with your partner. Sex doesn’t generalise, it’s incredibly personal. It’s all about finding and enhancing what you and the person you’re with find erotic.
“Say My Name”
The brain is the body’s biggest erogenous zone because it reacts to what you’re seeing and what you’re hearing. So, you should never underestimate the power of talking between the sheets.
One of the best things on the planet is being told how beautiful and sexy you are during the act – it boosts confidence and makes you feel like your partner is focusing on you and only you. If you do this for the person you’re with, they’ll sink into your embrace so easily. More than that though, communication is important in the bedroom.
Tell your partner what you like and what you don’t like, and ask them for the same thing, and don’t be afraid to check if they’re loving what you’re doing. On the flip side, getting verbal with your own pleasure when you’re on the receiving will also let them know that they’re on the right track.
Basically, what we’re saying is be loud and be proud. Moan, call their name, scream when you’re climaxing – you won’t go wrong.
Something else that is absolutely crucial to insanely good sex is trying new things out on your partner (with their permission, of course).
As we said earlier, it can be easy to fall into routines, but trying out into new things may help you find something new that tips them over the edge in a way they aren’t expecting. We have both regulars and newbies, and at every turn, it is crucial for us to discover new ways to create pleasure – the benefits are endless.
Furthermore, it’s effortlessly sexy when your partner knows your body well, and even better when they can use that knowledge in new and interesting ways. Buy a new toy, use ice, or try stimulating the backs of their knees or behind their ears (you’d be surprised how many people love that).
Get creative, and you’ll never be complacent again.
Find Value in the Lead Up
Planning sex isn’t always unsexy – in fact, sometimes it’s the lead up that makes it so fun. Our clients rarely book for just an hour, and that’s because the light touching, the kissing, the conversation and the glass of wine that lead up to the final deed makes it so much more satisfying! Find ways to create a build-up, a sense of anticipation, so that when you finally get them into the bedroom the relief will multiply ten-fold.
So, what are you waiting for?